It is generally assumed that low self-esteem and self-worth will lead to psychological problems for a person in the long run. Articles assuming this, point towards school shooting incidents as the attackers often were reported afterwards to have had low self-esteem and a plethora of mental health issues which stemmed from that. Similar assumptions have continued when it comes to mass shootings ever since. And this fits with a body of literature in self-help books which states that low self-esteem is tied to a wide range of other psychological issues.
United State legislatures have even invested millions of dollars on self-esteem programmes to try to tackle this perceived social ill. But the problem, as Lilienfeld, Lynn, Ruscio and Beyerstein argue, is that it is a myth. Contrary to the great number of self-help books and misinformed reports in the media, extensive and rigorous psychological studies have determined that self-esteem is not closely related to one’s interpersonal success or to potential mental illness. For instance, a comprehensive study by Baumeister, et al in 2003 concluded that “low self-esteem is neither necessary nor sufficient for depression.”
What they did find is that people with high self-esteem tended to rate themselves higher when it came to physical attractiveness, intelligence and other personal characteristics, but interestingly enough these self-assessments were found to be inaccurate when objective criteria were applied. What this means is that people with high self-esteem simply tend to think more highly of themselves, rather then actually performing better. At the same time, people with low-esteem were not performing more poorly in other areas of their life; their view of themselves was simply more careful.
Moreover, while studies found some limited evidence to suggest that low self-esteem could be associated with a heightened tendency towards physical aggression it was far outweighed by the tendency found in case of people with high self-esteem. Suggesting that high self-esteem are more likely to lead to aggressive behaviour because the person instinctively feels justified in their act. Overall, the findings show that low self-esteem does not result in a greater range of psychological problems nor brings more aggressive behaviour.
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